Give Me Everything You Have

Give Me Everything You Have

On Being Stalked

Book - 2013
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A true story of obsessive love turning to obsessive hate, "Give Me Everything You Have" chronicles the author's strange and harrowing ordeal at the hands of a former student, a self-styled 'verbal terrorist', who began trying, in her words, to 'ruin him'. Hate-mail much of it violently anti-Semitic online postings and public accusations of theft and sexual misconduct, have been her weapons of choice, and, as with more conventional terrorist weapons, have proved remarkably difficult to combat. James Lasdun's account, while terrifying, is told with compassion and humour, and brilliantly succeeds in turning a highly personal story into a profound meditation on subjects as varied as madness, race, Middle-Eastern politics, and the meaning of honour and reputation in the internet age.
Publisher: London : Jonathan Cape, 2013.
Branch Call Number: 364.15 LAS
Characteristics: 217 p. ;,23 cm.

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ChristchurchLib Apr 21, 2013

"Novelist and poet James Lasdun was teaching a fiction writing course at a New York college when one of his students impressed him with her writing abilities. He served as a mentor and helped her look for a publisher, but then her interest in him crossed over into sexual advances. Though he ... Read More »


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Jun 24, 2015

The book is interesting in terms of the ways in which electronic media can be used to discredit a person and one's helplessness in the face of this. However, for several reasons, it is difficult to be sympathetic with Lasdun, who seems to be mostly naïve about the world. The story is too long for a book.

jennrose Jul 22, 2013

A rather tedious read. Lasdun never manages to convey how truly awful his experience with this crazed ex student was. Maybe that's because there are so many worse atrocities than the internet stalking and slandering commited by this unhinged young woman, it just never seems all that dire. It is more about how his reputation was smeared online by this mentally ill former student, and to give him credit, he does come across as thoughtful and compassionate even as he is being victimized. However, one gets the feeling that this could have been an interesting magazine article, but to drag it out into a book required a lot of navel gazing filler which makes for a mostly dull read.

ChristchurchLib Apr 21, 2013

"Novelist and poet James Lasdun was teaching a fiction writing course at a New York college when one of his students impressed him with her writing abilities. He served as a mentor and helped her look for a publisher, but then her interest in him crossed over into sexual advances. Though he tried to distance himself, she escalated to threats, then began posting defamatory statements on the web and sending obnoxious messages in his name. In Give Me Everything You Have, Lasdun recounts the facts, then compassionately considers what happened from several different angles." April 2013 Biography and Memoir newsletter http://www.nextreads.com/Display2.aspx?SID=5acc8fc1-4e91-4ebe-906d-f8fc5e82a8e0&N=623168

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